Don’t worry, it’ll calm down: Or how co-operation can improve politeness

I had gotten to thinking about issues of interacting with other traffic on the roads and how those interactions are determined, and how we react and interact in those situations, and it got me thinking about something I really appreciate about Portland.

Riding around inner Portland, for the most part, I feel comfortable and welcome on the roads. I usually don’t feel like I need to assert my right to be on the roads, I don’t feel like I need to prove that I should be allowed to be there, and I generally don’t feel threatened by other people on the roads. To that, I’ll say thank you people of Portland, for being kind to your fellow citizens.

Here’s why I think this is important, beyond the simple obvious. It seems that most negative interactions between people on bicycle and people in cars are a result of either the person on the bicycle feeling threatened, or the person in the car feeling that the cyclist is impeding them unnecessarily just to make a point.

Obviously both of these are subjective, and either could perceive something that wasn’t intended by the other, but I think it’s important to have this in mind while driving or riding.

What I was thinking with regard to why improving these relations is important, is that those two conditions form kind of a cycle – for example: person riding bicycle feels unnecessarily threatened by person(s) in automobile(s), so starts making moves to assert their right to the full lane when it’s not necessary or impedes traffic, person(s) in automobile(s) get irked at person on bicycle, start behaving more aggressively towards them and others on bicycles, person on bicycle continues to feel threatened, etc…

Thinking about interacting in traffic in Portland, usually when I feel it’s safer or makes more sense with regard to traffic flow for me to take the full lane, I don’t feel like I usually have to force my way in, like I’m unwelcome or intimidated back to the side of the road, as long as my being there seems reasonable. Because of this, I generally don’t feel the need to prove that I have a right to be there, and I’m perfectly willing to let cars move by me if my speed is much slower than the flow of traffic, and they usually do so safely and I don’t feel in danger.

Obviously, this requires participation on both sides of the coin, and I think that has developed in Portland as more people have been out on bicycles more often. I’m an advocate of separated cycling facilities to help reduce these kinds of issues as much as possible, but even in the Netherlands, people on bicycles still interact with people in cars, and so you never can completely get rid of this issue. Education can help, and simply having more people using different modes of transportation can help, as people will get used to being on the road together, and I think each person deciding to interact in a way which promotes politeness and mutual respect rather than polarization will make a difference.

If you have any other thoughts or opinions on this kind of thing, feel free to post them in comments. Cheers all, and happy riding!

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  • Anne

    My experience riding in the public right of way matches yours almost exactly. My own behavior as a bike-rider is a powerful predictor of the behavior of motorists around me, and since it's the one thing I can totally control, I always try to hit the right balance of necessary assertiveness and courtesy that keeps everything going along smoothly and safely.

    Do you feel that your self-presentation (nice street clothes, non-racing appearance, etc.) play into this interaction at all? It may be my imagination, but since I started wearing regular clothes while riding my bike, people in cars (and other bike riders too!) seem to be more easygoing toward me.

  • portlandize.com

    @Anne: I suspect that the type of bike and the type of clothing make a difference, though it's hard for me to say personally, as I've never really worn "gear" since I've been riding.

    I imagine that the more human you look, the more people will feel humanly towards you. The more "otherly" you look, the easier it will be for people to treat you coldly and impersonally.

    I think it's great seeing an increasing diversity in the types of people riding bikes in Portland, for just that reason. It gets harder and harder to pin the term "cyclist" on the lycra hornet type of person, because there are thousands of people everyday on bicycles who look just like the people in cars and on the sidewalks.

  • jj

    I fall into both camps – most of the time, I'm in everday clothes, just going about my day, often with kidlets in tow, but there are times when I'm a "lycra hornet type" too, special shoes and all. In fact, I passed you in the latter mode two Saturdays ago when you were coming out of Clever Cycles – and getting into a CAR! I was shocked! ;) So shocked, I didn't get a chance to yell out hi. Plus I figured you wouldn't recognize me all decked out in lycra anyway. *grin*

    I ride the same either way, respectful of the rules of the road and of those around me, yet assertive of my rights. FWIW I haven't really noticed a difference in how I'm treated by people in cars or on bikes.

  • portlandize.com

    @jj: when I use the term "lycra hornet", I have a very specific type of person in mind, and it definitely isn't you :) I know it's not clear from the context, but I was thinking of those who not only dress in lycra, but ride like hornets. There certainly is a time and place for special(ized) clothing, and I have no problem with that. It's the people who believe the special clothing makes them something special that I have an issue with.

    Anyway, I think that type of person is the most common misconception of the average person who rides a bicycle, the "scofflaw cyclist", as some say – and I think that both having a lot of normally-dressed people on bicycles, and seeing generally good behavior from everyone on bicycles helps a lot to dispel that notion.

    This post is primarily about behavior, after all, and I think that is probably the biggest determinant of how other people on the road will behave towards you that you actually have any control over.

  • Travis A. Wittwer

    It is all about behavior. I agree with your post. Act excessively agressive and you will get that in return whether you are doing 4 or 2 wheels. Put positive out there and you will get it back. I know it sounds corny. I am scrunching up my face as I write this.

    I teach middle school students. Same issue. If I am confrontational, I get confrontation back. Without fail. We can choose how others interact with us.

  • Anonymous

    This is exactly why the #1 thing we can do to increase safety for bicyclists is to get more bicyclists on the roads. The more people see and adjust to the presence of bicycles, the safer things become. The more people see bicyclists and the safer things become the more likely people are to try bicycling. It is like a snowball…

  • MamaVee

    I have been pleasently surprised at how nice most people are. I have been beeped at only a few times, once with the kids. I'm not overly aggressive though at all although with the Cargo bike I do travel more in the lane than with a two wheeler. I do a lot of eye contact and smiling whenever possible. It's just the faceless beeps that zoom pass me that make me angry. Although now I have people beeping at me to say " Hi" which helps me not to always react to a beep in anger. It will be interesting to see any difference as I bike more solo with my foldie.

  • portlandize.com

    @Travis: Certainly there are factors in other peoples' behavior we can't control, but we can have a big impact on it. I think in a sense, we react to how we are treated (at least in our heads) very similarly our whole lives. We sometimes learn to control it one way or another, but what happens in our heads I think stays largely the same. Good to hear from you again, thanks for the comment!

    @Anonymous: Yeah, this is kind of a circular problem – more people on bikes = safer, but many people won't ride until they perceive that it's safer. I think simply having more people riding does make a big difference, and Portland traffic I think bears witness to that, but I really do think at some point we're going to have to step up a notch in both the infrastructure and law enforcement categories to meet the goals of things like the Portland Bike Master Plan. A lot of people just aren't going to feel safe if they have to ride in traffic with cars, knowing that if they get hit, there's a good chance nobody will do anything about it.

    @MamaVee: I agree, most people on the roads here in Portland are pretty friendly, or at the very least, pretty responsible.

    The bad ones do tend to stick out though – but when looked at objectively, I really don't feel like I've ever been in an interaction where I was nearly hit, even when the driver obviously passed me angrily or whatever. Intimidated, yes, but not really in danger. I have to admit to occasionally returning a revving engine and honking horn with a middle finger, but generally I try to just ignore it and keep riding as usual.

    Anyway, it's good to hear that you have a good experience generally toting the kids around in the Sorte, I imagine it's quite a different experience than riding a 2-wheeler by yourself. Thanks for chiming in!

  • Dottie

    Interesting conversation. Chicago streets are not as friendly as Portland, but not terrible. I don't assert my right to make a point on the road. I do ride outside of the doorzone because I'd be doing no one a favor by getting thrown in front of a car. Seems most honkers honk when I am riding the necessary three-feet from parked cars, even if they have plenty of room to go around me.

  • Anonymous

    Thanks for commenting on my film, Councillor on a bike, Portlandize.

    I'm presently devoting my films and my blog to the idea that the sit-up bike is what we most urgently need to ride, that these bikes s fly a flag to other traffic, a flag that's about tolerance and interaction.

    Eye contact becomes easy in such a posture, friendlier relations with other traffic tend to follow. One is as far removed from being an annoying Lycra hornet, as it's s possible to be.

    If anyone has any thoughts, pro or con on this idea that the sit-up bike has transformative power, do leave a comment on my blog; http://situp-cycle.com

    Mike rubbo

  • Anonymous

    Dear Portlandize.com, I think I forgot to leave my blog address. My attempts to leave a message have crashed three times, and I'm losing track of what I've said

    On my blog, I've posted many movies exploring the idea that sit-up bikes make for a calmer more friendly urban bike culture

    http://situp-cycle.com

    Cheers, Mike rubbo

  • portlandize.com

    Sorry Mike, I think it was just that I have comment moderation turned on, so I have to approve comments before they appear. Thanks for your comment, I've enjoyed a few of your films that I've seen posted on different sites around the web. Looking forward to seeing more!

  • Phoenix

    I've had experiences on opposite sides of the spectrum while riding in Portland. When I'm riding downtown (I live in inner SE and work downtown), I don't mind taking up an entire lane (and cars don't seem to mind) because I'm not slowing anyone down more than just *being* downtown is already slowing us down. And, like you, if someone can safely pass me, I let them!

    On the opposite end, I was riding (on a Sunday, fyi) westbound on SE 20th toward Hawthorne and I had some girls in a Prius TWICE pull up to me as we were stopped at a light together to tell me I should ride down 16th where, apparently, there is a bike lane. As if my being on the road was a personal imposition on their time. I wasn't taking up an entire lane and there were hardly any cars on the road. I immediately felt defensive because, HEY, I don't tell them to get out of their cars and ride bikes because I'm personally opposed to cars!

    Anyways… I agree we need more dedicated bike lanes. Unfortunately, there are still too many people in cars who feel it's their right to solely control the roads. Of course, in my Utopia, it would be *bikes* that ruled the roost! :-)

    Just wanted to share.

  • Phoenix

    Portlandize… in regard to Mike's problem posting… that's happened to me a few times too. What seems to work is to "preview" first, which then generates a captcha screen. I don't see that screen when I hit "post comment" first.

  • portlandize.com

    Phoenix: I have a very similar experience riding downtown, as it's usually pretty obvious that it's the huge line of cars in front of me that's slowing traffic down (and/or the traffic signals every block), not myself :)

    SE 20th is one of the few places that I've actually had any kind of "confrontation" with someone in an automobile – it's designed to be a quick through-put for automobiles, and people certainly view it that way. Still, most of the time people have behaved nicely when I've been on it, but they still drive pretty fast and don't always give you a lot of room when passing.

    Incidentally, there is no bike lane on 16th. Thankfully, there also is hardly any traffic (as they all stay on 20th). I live over in NE, and work in SW, so I usually come over the Hawthorne bridge, and take 14th all the way over to Ash, and then cut up to 24th to go further North, and that works out pretty well and keeps me away from almost any car traffic. The only problem is crossing all the arterial streets, since they usually go 5 blocks or more with no traffic signals, so you sometimes have to wait quite a while to cross. They really need to set up a SE/NE bikeway that cuts all the way across the city with traffic signals at the arterial streets and isn't a main automobile route.

    Regarding comment posting, Google's setup seems to be a little flaky, I might try turning off comment moderation and see if that helps at all, at least until I start getting spam comments :)